Moving to the US as an Expat: Full Guide (2026)
When I moved from Singapore to the US, I thought I'd researched everything. I hadn't. Not even close.
The first month was a blur of things I didn't expect: needing a credit history to rent an apartment (but needing an address to build credit — classic chicken-and-egg problem), waiting weeks for my SSN while feeling like a ghost in the system, and discovering that "furnished apartment" in the US means something very different from Singapore. (Spoiler: it usually means a couch and a bed frame. Maybe.)
I also didn't expect how big everything would be — the grocery stores, the parking lots, the portion sizes. Or how different tipping culture would feel after years in Asia. Or that I'd need to file taxes in both countries. The learning curve was steep, and honestly, some days were rough.
Moving to the US as an expat requires careful preparation across visa paperwork, temporary housing, banking setup, SSN applications, and understanding cultural differences — most of which need to happen in a specific order during your first 30 days. This guide covers the complete timeline from pre-departure to fully settled.
Over the years, I've written individual guides on relocation tips, moving to California, cost of living, and best cities for expats. This guide consolidates everything into a single, updated resource — the one I wish existed when I was packing my bags.
Before You Arrive: Pre-Move Checklist
Documents to Prepare
- Visa documents: Make copies (physical and digital) of your visa approval, I-797, passport, and any employment authorization
- SSN application: You can apply at your nearest Social Security Administration office after arriving. Some visa types (like H-1B) allow your employer to apply on your behalf before you arrive
- International Driving Permit (IDP): Get this in your home country before you leave. It lets you drive legally in most US states for 30 days to 1 year while you get your US license. Apply through your country's automobile association
- Medical records: Bring vaccination records, prescription documentation, and any medical history you might need. US doctors may not accept overseas records easily
- Academic transcripts: If you plan to continue education or need credentials verified
Financial Prep
Bring enough cash or accessible funds for 2-3 months of expenses. I cannot stress this enough. You won't have a US bank account on day one, and some things require immediate payment. The security deposit alone can be a shock — I wasn't expecting to hand over two months' rent before I'd even unpacked.
Rough estimates for the first 2-3 months:
- Security deposit on apartment: 1-2 months' rent
- First month's rent
- Furniture and essentials: $1,000-$3,000
- Car deposit or transportation costs
- Food and daily expenses
Tip: Some international banks (like HSBC and Citibank) let you open a US account before arriving. Check if your home-country bank has a US presence.
Research Your Destination
- Housing costs: Check Zillow, Apartments.com, and Redfin for current rental prices
- Climate: The US is huge. California and Texas have wildly different weather
- Public transit vs car dependency: Only a few cities (NYC, SF, Chicago, DC) have reliable public transit. Most US cities require a car
- Community: Search Facebook groups for expats from your country in your destination city
First Week: The Essentials
Get Your SSN
Apply at the Social Security Administration office near you. You'll need your passport, visa, I-94 (arrival record), and work authorization.
Timeline: Typically 2-4 weeks to receive your SSN card by mail. Some employers can start the process before you arrive.
Why it matters: You need an SSN for almost everything — opening bank accounts, getting a phone plan, applying for credit, filing taxes. Until you have one, you'll feel like you're in limbo. I spent those waiting weeks feeling oddly invisible in the system. It passes — but the sooner you apply, the sooner you can actually start setting up your life.
Open a Bank Account
Most major banks will open an account with your passport and a US address (even a temporary one). Recommended for expats:
- Chase: Largest branch network, widely accepted, many credit card options later
- Bank of America: Similar to Chase, strong presence nationwide
- HSBC: If you already bank with HSBC internationally, they can help with account transfers
Tip: Open both a checking and savings account. Move your savings into a high-yield savings account once you're settled — the rate difference is enormous.
Get a US Phone Number
You'll need a US number for bank verification, job applications, and daily life. Options:
- Postpaid plans (T-Mobile, AT&T, Verizon): Better coverage, but may require a credit check or deposit
- Prepaid plans (Mint Mobile, Google Fi, Visible): No credit check, available immediately
- Google Fi: Works internationally and in the US — useful if you travel back to Asia
Set Up Transportation
Here's a reality check that many Asian expats aren't prepared for: in most US cities, you'll need a car. Coming from Singapore (where public transit is excellent and car ownership costs a fortune), this was a big adjustment. Public transit is reliable only in NYC, SF/Bay Area, Chicago, DC, and Boston.
If you need a car:
- Used cars: Check CarMax, Carvana, and AutoTrader
- Financing as an expat: Without US credit, you may need a larger down payment (20-30%) or co-signer. Some dealers work with international buyers
- Insurance: Get quotes from Progressive, GEICO, and State Farm. Without a US driving record, expect higher premiums for the first 1-2 years
Finding Housing
Renting as an expat with no US credit history is one of the biggest challenges — and one of the most frustrating. You have money, you have a job, but the system doesn't "see" you yet. Here's what actually works (I've tried most of these):
Renting Without Credit History
- Pay upfront: Offer to pay several months' rent in advance. Some landlords accept this in lieu of a credit check
- Larger security deposit: Offer 2-3 months instead of the standard 1 month
- Employer letter: A letter from your employer stating your salary and employment dates can help
- Corporate housing: Some employers provide temporary housing for the first 1-3 months. Ask your relocation coordinator
- Co-signer service: Services like Insurent act as a guarantor for a fee
Questions to Ask Before Signing a Lease
I covered this in detail in my lease questions guide, but the key ones:
- What's included in rent? (Water, gas, electricity, internet, parking — varies widely)
- What's the lease break penalty? (Usually 1-2 months' rent)
- Is renters insurance required? (Often yes — costs $15-$30/month)
- When is rent due and what's the late fee?
- Can I sublease if I need to relocate?
- What's the noise policy? (Important in apartments)
- Who handles maintenance and how quickly?
- Is the neighborhood safe? (Check CrimeMapping and NeighborhoodScout)
Understanding US Lease Terms
- Standard lease: 12 months (some areas offer 6-month or month-to-month at higher rent)
- Security deposit: Usually 1 month's rent, refundable at move-out minus damages
- Renters insurance: Protects your belongings — required by many landlords
- Utilities: Often NOT included — this was a surprise for me coming from Asia where utilities were typically bundled. Budget $100-$300/month for electricity, gas, water, internet
Cost of Living Comparison (2026)
Cost of living varies dramatically by city. Here's a rough comparison based on data from Numbeo and BLS:
| City | 1BR Rent (City Center) | Groceries (Monthly) | Transit Pass | Overall |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| San Francisco | $2,800-$3,500 | $500-$700 | $86 | Very High |
| New York City | $3,500-$5,000 | $500-$700 | $132 | Very High |
| Los Angeles | $2,200-$3,000 | $400-$600 | ~$72/wk cap | High |
| Seattle | $2,000-$2,800 | $400-$550 | $108 | High |
| Austin | $1,200-$1,800 | $350-$500 | $46.50 | Moderate-High |
| Raleigh-Durham | $1,200-$1,800 | $300-$450 | Limited | Moderate |
Ranges reflect typical variation within each metro area. Actual costs depend on neighborhood, lifestyle, and household size.
For a deeper dive, see my cost of living guide.
Getting Around
US Driver's License
Each state has its own process. Generally:
- Study the state driver's handbook (available free online from your state's DMV)
- Pass the written test (knowledge test — book an appointment, don't walk in)
- Pass the driving test (bring a registered, insured vehicle)
- Your international license/IDP: Valid temporarily (30 days to 1 year depending on state)
Tip: Most states require both a written and behind-the-wheel test regardless of your foreign license. A few states may waive the driving test for holders of licenses from specific countries — check your state's DMV website for the latest rules. California, for example, generally requires all new applicants to take both the written knowledge test and a driving test.
Car Insurance Without US History
Without a US driving record, insurance premiums will be higher. To get the best rate:
- Get quotes from 3+ companies: Rates vary significantly
- Ask about international driving record discounts: Some insurers (Progressive, GEICO) consider your overseas driving history
- Consider a higher deductible: Lowers monthly premiums if you're a safe driver
- Bundle with renters insurance: Often saves 5-15%
State ID
Even if you don't drive, get a state ID. It's accepted as identification everywhere and is easier to carry than your passport.
Setting Up Your Financial Life
Once you're settled (and you will settle — it took me about 3-4 months to stop feeling like a tourist), start building your financial foundation. This is where the real magic happens:
- Build your credit score: This is priority one. See my complete credit building guide
- Enroll in healthcare: Understand HSA, FSA, and your plan options. See my healthcare benefits guide
- Optimize your savings: Move cash to a HYSA or T-bills. See my savings and investing guide
- Start earning rewards: Once your credit is established, see my credit card rewards guide
- Enroll your kids in school: If you have children, check out my guide on enrolling in US schools — the system is very different from Asia
Best Cities for Expats (2026)
Based on my experience, community feedback, and conversations with other expats in our Asian Expats in the US Facebook group, here are quick profiles of top expat destinations:
San Francisco / Bay Area
- Job market: Strong in tech, biotech, finance
- Diversity: Very high — large Asian community
- Cost: Very expensive (plan for $3,000+ rent for a 1BR)
- Transit: BART and Muni are decent; car helpful outside SF
- Climate: Mild year-round, microclimates, little rain in summer
- Nearby: Yosemite, Pinnacles, and Joshua Tree national parks are all within driving distance — one of the best perks of living in California. I wrote about living in Foster City specifically if you're looking at the Bay Area
New York City
- Job market: Finance, media, tech, healthcare — extremely diverse
- Diversity: The most diverse city in the US
- Cost: Very expensive (Manhattan and Brooklyn especially)
- Transit: Best public transit in the US — you don't need a car
- Climate: Four seasons; cold winters, hot summers
Austin, TX
- Job market: Growing tech hub (Tesla, Apple, Google offices)
- Diversity: Growing, especially in tech community
- Cost: Moderate-high, but no state income tax
- Transit: Car-dependent
- Climate: Hot summers (100F+), mild winters — but close to Utah's incredible national parks for weekend road trips
Seattle, WA
- Job market: Amazon, Microsoft, Boeing — strong in tech
- Diversity: Large Asian community
- Cost: High but less than SF/NYC
- Transit: Light rail expanding; car helpful
- Climate: Rainy and overcast much of the year; mild temperatures
Raleigh-Durham, NC (Research Triangle)
- Job market: Tech, biotech, universities (Duke, UNC, NC State)
- Diversity: Growing
- Cost: Moderate — one of the best value metros
- Transit: Car required
- Climate: Four seasons, moderate winters, humid summers
For a deeper comparison, see my top cities guide. And for a California-specific perspective, see From Asia to California.
One thing I'll say: wherever you land, make time to explore. The US has some of the most stunning natural landscapes I've ever seen. My family has visited Yellowstone, Zion, Yosemite, and many more — and we've done some epic road trips along the way. It's one of the best parts of living here.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much money should I bring to the US?
Plan for 2-3 months of total living expenses in accessible funds. For a single person moving to a mid-cost city, that's roughly $8,000-$15,000. For expensive cities like SF or NYC, budget $15,000-$25,000. This covers security deposit, first month's rent, furniture, transportation, and daily expenses before your first paycheck.
Can I rent an apartment without a US credit score?
Yes, but it's harder. Strategies that work: offering several months' rent upfront, providing an employer letter confirming salary, using a larger security deposit (2-3 months instead of 1), or using a guarantor service like Insurent. Corporate housing or short-term furnished rentals (Airbnb, Furnished Finder) can bridge the gap while you build credit.
How long does it take to get an SSN?
Typically 2-4 weeks after applying in person at a Social Security Administration office. Some visa categories (like H-1B) allow your employer to initiate the process before you arrive, which can speed things up. You'll receive the card by mail — make sure your mailing address is correct when you apply.
What's the best city for Asian expats?
The San Francisco Bay Area has one of the largest and most established Asian communities in the US, with strong cultural infrastructure (Asian supermarkets, restaurants, community organizations). The New York City metro area is similarly diverse. For lower cost of living with growing Asian communities, consider the Seattle area, Austin, or the Raleigh-Durham region. The "best" city depends on your industry, budget, and lifestyle preferences.
Do I need a car in the US?
In most cities, yes. The US is designed around cars, and outside of NYC, San Francisco, Chicago, DC, and Boston, public transit is limited or unreliable. If you're in a car-dependent city, budget $600-$1,000/month for car payment, insurance, gas, and maintenance (based on AAA's annual driving cost estimates). If you're in NYC or SF, you can get by without one.
Moving to the US is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make. It's exciting, scary, and confusing — often all at the same time. But four years in, I can tell you: it gets easier. The system starts to make sense (well, mostly), you find your people, and eventually the US starts to feel like home.
If you're about to make the move or you've just arrived and feeling overwhelmed — hang in there. Every expat has been through it. And if you want to connect with others who understand, join our Asian Expats in the US Facebook group. We share tips, vent about bureaucracy, and celebrate the small wins together.
Good luck with your move!
Chandler